Concert Etiquette: What to Do and what NOT to Do

There’s nothing like the energy of a live concert, lights, sound, and crowd all blending into an unforgettable experience. But amidst the excitement, it’s easy to forget that being part of the audience comes with some unspoken rules. From phones to personal space, here’s how to enjoy the music while still respecting everyone around you.

Do:

Arrive on Time: Showing up on time isn’t just about catching every minute of music, it’s about respect. Opening acts are often up-and-coming artists who pour their hearts into performing. Plus, fans who arrived early to claim good spots deserve to enjoy the show without others pushing in late. Being on time sets a respectful tone for the whole night.

Be Aware of your Space: Concerts are for letting loose and having fun, but remember you’re part of a shared experience. It’s awesome to dance and move with the music, but flailing elbows or backpack twirls can ruin someone else’s night. Be mindful of who’s around you, especially in tightly packed GA pits. Also try to avoid blocking someone’s view or encroaching on their personal bubble. Rock out, but don’t knock out.

Listen to the Staff: Security and venue staff are there for your safety and everyone’s experience. From helping with directions to de-escalating tense situations, concert staff are your allies. If staff ask you to move, step back, or follow rules, it’s to keep everyone safe and the show running smoothly.

Have Fun: At the end of the day, concerts are meant to be joyful, electric experiences. Whether that means quietly taking it all in or singing along with everyone else, do what feels right for you. There’s no need to overthink it. Just be present, respect others, and let the night unfold.

Don’t:

Throw Stuff on Stage: Throwing things might seem like a wild way to get an artist’s attention, but it’s never okay. Whether it’s a gift, a phone, or just something random, it puts the performer at risk and disrupts the show. There are countless videos of performers getting hit and being seriously injured. There are better ways to show appreciation such as cheering, singing along, or connecting with them on social media after the show.

Drink Too Much: Having a drink or partaking in something beforehand isn’t uncommon, but there’s a line. If you’re stumbling around, throwing up, or getting aggressive, it affects everyone near you. Know your limits and pace yourself so you can enjoy the show, without cutting it short for yourself or others.

Push or Shove: We get it, sometimes you want a better view or the energy in a pit can get intense. But shoving your way forward or getting aggressive with others isn’t the move. Everyone’s trying to enjoy the show, and being forceful can kill the vibe or cause someone to get hurt. If you’re in a packed space, read the room and move respectfully. A little awareness goes a long way.

Don’t Hold Signs if in Front Row: If you’re lucky enough to get a front row spot, consider not holding your sign or bringing one at all. It’s understandable to want the artist’s attention, but holding things up too long blocks the view for people behind you. Keep signs small and hold them up between songs if you need to.

Concerts are meant to be shared experiences, where the music brings people together, and the energy in the room is something you can actually feel. Following basic concert etiquette, from the simple dos like showing up on time and being present, to the don’ts like talking through songs or pushing your way through the crowd, helps make that experience better for everyone.